What To Do?
A comrade and I talked in the middle of the night about something that concerns us both. It was an emotional conversation and both of us tried to console each other. I wanted her to get the closure she deserves. I did everything I could to help, but I never expected that it would come to a point that I also had to do something so there would be a resolution to the issue.
I cried to sleep again. I wished that I would wake up with the right decision on what I have to do. All I got were puffy eyes and a major headache.
I don’t know if I can ever face this certain person involved in the situation. I’m more ashamed of myself than of him. I’ve let down people who have put their trust in me. They have been hurt in the process, and I want to heal the wounds I’ve caused. But how? I’m afraid that the only right thing to do might make me awkward to mingle with my other comrades, and make myself less of a revolutionist.
Wow, Umm i don’t even know what to sai. I would say just do what you feel is right, even when you don’t want to!
Talk things over? But first, maybe a bit of isolation at first would do good. I’m not good at this advice thing, but I’ve experienced something like this.
Ice cream. Or something junk food-y.
@Beetum: The right thing. Right. Thanks.
@Ellie: That’s what I’m supposed to do, talk with them. But I can’t…Not right now. I’m in bad need of ice cream, hehe…
Hmmm let me see, does this involve things concerning matters of the heart?
@Ate Ems: Yes, yes it does. How burges, hehe
Aww, Shari… *hugs* I hope you can get over this with whatever you decide to do…
Keri lang, ‘dre. Kaya ‘to, basta ba para sa ikawawasto ng mga bagay-bagay. Keri, di ba? Oo…
@Chau: Thanks.
@Frances: Oo. Keri sana. Para sa iyo at sa mga kasama…
but that’s Life… so all you have to do is forgive yourself and try to focus on the future (much better.. face it and solve it). Btw wanna exchange link too? doon sa Philip and Chette Blog? http://potterhands.com/godswill/
Things will always be all right just be optimistic my dear
oh oh does this involve that guy you’ve been fancying for quite awhile now, shari?
Well I mean ,you recognise that you may have damaged trust with certain people, but it’s not like you’re clueless, if you know you did something wrong, and truely feel bad about it ( which you obviously do) depending on the “crime” I dont see how it would be too hard to forgive you. Then best thing you can do honestly, is not ask questions, just let the people involved know how you feel, whether it through a letter, a phone call, in person ,whatever makes you feel better, and let them have time to get over whatever has been done. Personally, that’s how i’d like to have it if something was done to me where i felt a loss of trust for someone, because people just need to dwell on stuff for a bit.
Aw, sorry to hear that you’re down. Hopefully things will work out for the best.
I’m sorry to heard that you’re not feeling too good. And I don’t know what happened, but you could always apologize- I’m sure you’ve done that already. If he doesn’t forgive you, you can’t do anything else but let time heal your wounds.
Ayyy..
alam mo Sha, typical lang naman na ma-let down mo ang mga tao eh.,. at dumating sa point na di mo na talgaa alam gagawin mo.. Im sure everyone’s been there and they’ve gotten through it, so ikaw din kaya mo yun. Hindi ka naman si wonder woman para maging perfect eh… well, even her isn’t perfect (im sure!). feel better.
Sorry to hear that you are feeling down
I guess, you’ll just have to talk to the people you have let down, and if they forgive you, that’s good, and if not, that it just something you’ll have to accept. Im sure they will forgive you if they are real friends anyway 
I love emotional discussions because however they end, it is always good in some way or other!
Awww, you need a hug or someone to talk to. I hope you get better.
we aren’t perfect , as long as we learn from what we do wrong.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season!
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
*hugs Shari*
i dont exactly know what’s going on but for some reason, it’s strange to feel your pain..
i hope things will get better for you soon dear.. It’s ok to stumble and fall every once in awhile but dont give up there, stand up and be brave. Im sure we’ve all been there, it’s just a matter of how you face your challenges.. I’ve always believed that sometimes, what may seem right to you may not seem right to many but always trust your guts!
Im just a blog away gurL! *hugs*
Just do the right thing to do. Medyo di ko alam yun story but I hope everything would be okay… Kaya mo yan!
I don’t really know what to say. I think I know what this is about, but since it’s not my business I’d rather not tell you what you should/shouldn’t do. Just know that I’m here to give you e-hugs.
This may seem very artificial and common and all, but I hope everything goes well and you feel better soon.
These things happen. You just have to be strong and face it as it is. Whatever needs fixing, start from there. Talk if it is needed. Find ways to get closure. It may be hard. Lalo na kung ma-pride ka. If you might lose a few things/people along the way. Assess. Worth it ba? What makes you happy? What do you really deserve?
It’s hard to cry yourself to sleep. You need not have any of those nights again.
Stay strong, dear.
Big hugs….
Pearl